March 2011
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Anonymous asked: I like this guy (lets call him Bob). He’s exactly my type, except he has a girlfriend. Normally, I would stay out of the relationship and not let the guy know. However, they’ve been having problems for a while…I think the last time they talked was a LONG time ago. Whenever Bob and I are together, we have fun and I always feel happy and comfortable around him. Recently he’s...
Mar 11th
January 2011
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Why Do Guys Lie About How They Feel?
I was talking to a female friend of mine recently about problems she was having with a guy she was dating.  She was really into this guy, and he kept saying he was too, but she didn’t feel like he was, and ultimately was getting really frustrated that his words and his actions weren’t lining up. After asking a few questions I came to the simple conclusion he wasn’t as into her as...
Jan 29th
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November 2010
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How do you feel about facial hair?
As the winter months approach us here in the US, in addition to charitable events like #movember, many males feel like it’s “beard season.”  But facial seems to be a love it or hate it kind of thing. So I ask you ladies, how do you feel about facial hair? Does it make a man more or less attractive?
Nov 11th
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September 2010
3 posts
Email: Why do guys lie about being with someone...
Received this email the other day: hi, I have a problem. I was interested in this guy until I recently discovered something. I found out that he was dating some girl, and when I confronted him about it he completely denied even being in a relationship, and what is worse is that none of his friends know about this girl. He keeps trying to “get to know me better” and he’s been at...
Sep 29th
We're not mind readers!
Guys are not mind readers. We are not psychics. We can’t predict the future, and we usually prefer to add another letter to ESP. So why do girls seem to see their ideal guy as someone who just knows what they want at all times? Just about every love story I’ve ever seen (or read) seems to paint this picture. But while it might seem ideal, it’s not realistic. How many times have...
Sep 28th
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How To Play 'Hard To Get' The Right Way
A good game of “hard to get” is like public foreplay. It’s a great way to flirt and build excitement in an effort to reach a mutual climax (note that I’m not specifying that this specifically means sex). Guys love a good challenge, and we do many things just to impress women.  At the same time, women naturally love to be chased and desired, and regularly test a man’s...
Sep 21st
August 2010
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Welcome!
Welcome to The Truth About Guys. This blog is meant to be a place to share some insight and information, answer questions, share anecdotes, and pass along general helpful information about guys, our tendencies, what we’re really thinking, what we really want, and…. well… what makes us GUYS. Ever wonder why guys are afraid of commitment? It’s not because we don’t like...
Aug 24th